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I have gained from it, I learned 1 big thing I think could of prevented this, story short, she wants to travel taking vacations a couple times a year, unfortunately i was more into spending time at home and saving money instead, she ALWAYS said she didnt have anything to look forward to, cook and clean ect. believe it or not, that little thing would of prevented this. So the bottom line that I learned is "when the Women talks, I need to LISTEN" the last 2 or 3 years I didnt. My lesson is LISTEN, and I am paying the ultimate price, but from now on, I LISTEN. It really isnt in her character to cheat, so I dont really dont think she again, if he listens. The funny thing is they dont even have a physical relationship at this point, but he LISTENS. Damn rite I come out strong. Thank you much for your chatting. I LISTENED:-) and division of kink property. So my ex is fully out of the picture now, we sort petered on with the relationship (no sex) to deal with unfinished projects etc… his current GF had a complete meltdown recently over our friendship, no comment on that behavior… other than he has his work cut out for him. So last night we fast tracked the discussion that had been brewing re division of kink property. BUT… the god news is, he decided to air on the side of caution and give me first refusal on all our sex toys/accoutrements. As of next week, when he come over for dinner, I be the proud re-owner of: My Large single loop blk leather collar. My slimmer, sexier, muilti looped blk leather collar. Blk custom foamed leather ankle cuffs. Blk gorgeous “mitt” suspension leather cuffs. My beloved jeweled stainless steel butt plug. Small blk leather flogger. Small blk leather paddle. Custom made to me, stocks (neck and wrists). Crocodile nipple clamps. Adjustable nipple and clit clamps. Small ball gag. Medium ball gag, Variety of chains, clamps, leather straps… Items I have declined: 3 dildos, I think they have seen better days and to be honest I don’t trust that he hasn’t recently used them with other women. Torture bench, this item makes me so sad to give up, it’s stunning and hand made, so functional and comfortable… I just can’t really spin it as anything but a torture bench. I really had to mull this one over for a time… I can’t have it in my home. Items I WANT but am not getting: Medium size, antique brown leather flogger. And assortment of riding crops. All his equestrian gear, including a modified (to fit a human) bridle and bit gag. *cries* Just thought I’d share, perhaps it generate some interesting discussions.